Domestic abuse, encompassing physical, sexual, and psychological harm by a current or former partner, profoundly affects victims' mental health and wellbeing. The isolation and manipulation inherent in abusive relationships can lead to severe emotional distress and feelings of hopelessness, increasing the risk of suicide.
Sadie Restorick MSc MISMA MABP, Co-Founder of IAMH and Wellity Global, sits on R;pple’s advisory board for domestic abuse. Having endured high-risk domestic abuse herself, Sadie has transformed her journey into a mission to support others in similar situations.
In this interview, she discusses the profound challenges faced by domestic abuse victims, the critical link between domestic abuse and suicide risk, the impact on workplaces, and the role of technology in mental health and suicide prevention.
Can you share a bit about your background and experience with domestic abuse? What led you to specialise in this area?
I was once the highest-risk domestic abuse case in the country, and through my own lived experience, I gained an understanding of the immense psychological, emotional,and physical toll it takes. The isolation and the manipulation that come with abusive relationships, particularly when subjected to coercive control, are incredibly difficult to break free from. This personal journey shaped my passion for supporting others in similar situations. I have spent time advocating for survivors, raising awareness about the severity of domestic abuse, and educating others on how to recognise and support those at risk.
In your experience, what are the biggest challenges faced by people experiencing domestic abuse?
One of the biggest challenges people face is the overwhelming isolation. Domestic abuse isn’t just physical; it often involves psychological and emotional abuse, which can leave individuals feeling utterly alone, ashamed, and helpless. The tactics used by abusers, like gaslighting, financial control, and severe emotional manipulation, can make it almost impossible for someone to recognise they need help, let alone reach out for it. Survivors often feel as though they are trapped in a cycle, they cannot escape, with no support system to turn to.
How does domestic abuse increase the risk of suicide? What are some of the signs?
The risk of suicide in individuals experiencing domestic abuse is heightened because of the intense emotional and psychological trauma they endure. Coercive control, isolation, and the constant undermining of self-worth can lead to feelings of hopelessness. Survivors often feel like there is no way out and that they are powerless to change their circumstances. Signs that someone may be at risk include withdrawal from social activities, extreme fatigue, a significant drop in self-esteem, and expressing feelings of worthlessness or hopelessness. The emotional and psychological toll can build up to a point where the individual feels that suicide is the only escape from their pain.
Does domestic abuse have an impact on workplaces?
Yes, domestic abuse can have a significant impact on workplaces. Victims may struggle with absenteeism, a lack of focus, and a decline in performance due to the mental and emotional toll of the abuse they are enduring. In some cases, abusers may even attempt to control their victim’s workplace environment, causing further distress. The emotional strain of living in fear or enduring manipulation at home can lead to anxiety, depression, and a decrease in productivity at work.
How can employers better support their staff experiencing domestic abuse?
Employers can support staff by creating a safe, non-judgmental environment where employees feel comfortable disclosing their situation. Training staff to recognise the signs of domestic abuse and providing resources such as helplines or information on local support services is critical. It’s also important to have policies in place that allow for flexible working arrangements or time off when needed. More importantly, employers should be compassionate, understanding, and respectful when someone discloses they are experiencing abuse, ensuring that confidentiality and safety are prioritised.
What does your role as a R;pple advisory board member involve?
As a member of the R;ppleadvisory board, my role involves providing guidance on enhancing the platform's effectiveness in supporting individuals at risk of self-harm or suicide. Contribute insights from my lived experience to ensure that R;pple's interventions are sensitive, accessible, and impactful. This includes advising on the development of features that discreetly intercept harmful online searches and direct users to immediate, free, 24/7 mental health support services.
Why was it important for R;pple to expand its protection to those experiencing domestic abuse?
Expanding R;pple's protection to individuals experiencing domestic abuse is crucial because these individuals often face heightened isolation and may seek information online about self-harm or suicide as a means of coping. By discreetly intercepting searches for harmful content, R;pple can provide immediate access to support resources, offering a lifeline during moments of crisis. This proactive approach ensures that those in vulnerable situations receive timely assistance, potentially preventing tragic outcomes.
How do you see technology playing a role in mental health and suicide prevention, now and in the future?
Technology plays a pivotal role in mental health and suicide prevention by offering discreet, immediate access to support resources. Tools like R;pple exemplify how digital interventions can proactively identify and assist individuals at risk. Looking ahead, I anticipate further integration of technology in mental health care,including AI-driven support systems, virtual counselling, and online communities that provide real-time assistance. These advancements can bridge gaps in traditional mental health services, making support more accessible and tailored to individual needs.
